The Proven 90 Day System To Turn Your Relationship Around.

Is Your Relationship Hanging on By A Thread? Get your relationship back on track, learn how to rebuild her trust, learn how to regulate your nervous system so you can LOVE and LEAD better in your relationship.

Let’s Be Honest… You’re not here because things are going great.

You’re here because your relationship is hanging on by a thread. She’s distant, resentful, and nothing you say seems to land. You’re stuck in the same fights, sex is rare or non-existent, and you’re walking on eggshells trying to keep it all together. Maybe she has already requested a break or left…

And the hardest part? It feels like no matter what you do, it’s never enough. You try to be more patient. You try to give her what she says she needs. You’re bending yourself in every direction just to keep the peace… and it still blows up.

This is where the real work begins the kind of work that gets you grounded, helps you repair the damage, and rebuilds the connection you thought might be gone for good. If you’re ready to stop guessing and start leading again, this program is for you.

“Working with Ian over the past three months has been nothing short of transformative. Through his guidance, I was able to step into a stronger version of myself. At a time when my relationship was on the rocks, Ian’s support and perspective helped me navigate the storm with clarity and integrity. Today, I’m in a place of strength, purpose, and peace, and I credit much of that growth to the work we did together. If you’re feeling stuck or called to something deeper, I can’t recommend Ian highly enough.” - Brad D

Does This Sound Like You?

You’re successful on paper, but your relationship feels like constant tension.

  • You prioritize work over your relationship

  • You never feel like anything you do is enough.

  • You freeze or blow up when things get emotional.

  • You want more intimacy, but you don’t know how to create it.

  • You feel like you’re failing her, no matter how hard you try.

  • You crave peace, but end up in the same arguments on repeat.

If that’s you, you’re not broken. You’re just running a pattern that no one ever taught you how to shift.

Rebuilding My Relationship Was One of The Most Hardest Things I Ever Did… Until I Learned This Well Kept Relationship Secret.

But after years of trying to “do the right thing” in relationships, I was still burning everything to the ground.

I read the books.
I watched the videos.
I tried to communicate better. Be more sensitive. Be more stoic. Be more something.

But nothing really changed. The same arguments kept coming back. I’d either shut down or explode. And I had no idea how to actually lead the relationship.

To be honest, I thought maybe something was wrong with me. Or her. Or us.

But then I realized: The advice I’d been following was outdated and incomplete. It was all mindset… theory… surface-level tips.

No one was showing me how to embody leadership in love.
How to stay grounded when things got hard.

How to hold space for her emotions without losing myself in them.

How to be the kind of man a woman can actually trust, not just love.

So I decided to go all in on a new path.

I dove deep into embodiment work, nervous system training, men’s groups, emotional intelligence, and relationship repair.

And everything shifted. I rebuilt my relationship from the inside out… starting with me.
I became the man I always knew I could be, not just in love, but in life.

But There Was Still a Problem…

I’d changed my life and relationship. But I still didn’t know how to translate this work to other men.

So I started testing.
I built a simple system based on what actually works:
✅ Nervous system tools that keep you calm and grounded
✅ Clear communication & repair frameworks that build trust instead of breaking it
✅ A vision that makes your relationship feel like a team again
✅ And a new awareness of how the invisible “mental load” is silently eroding so many modern relationships

The results? Not just transformation for me, but for the men I coached, too.

Men who went from constant fighting to deep connection. Men who said, “I finally feel like a man she can trust.” Men who reclaimed their confidence… in the bedroom, in conflict, and in themselves.

What My Clients Say…

The 4 Pillars of Successful Relating

Proven and tested inside my 90 day coaching container.

Nervous System Regulation

  • Learn to stay grounded in conflict instead of reactive

  • Understand your stress triggers and how to calm them

  • Build emotional resilience to lead from presence, not panic with daily embodiment practices

Learn The Art of Repair 

  • Master the steps to clean up past hurts without defensiveness

  • Learn how to take responsibility for your actions

  • Learn how to rebuild trust and safety after breakdowns

  • Communicate in a way that softens, not escalates

Understanding & Sharing the Mental Load

  • Learn how to recognize the invisible responsibilities your partner carries

  • Show up as an equal teammate, not just a provider or problem-solver

  • Build daily habits that create fairness, ease, and deeper trust in your relationship

Crafting a Vision For The Relationship 

  • Get clear on what you actually want as a man and partner

  • Build a shared vision that brings purpose to the relationship

  • Step into leadership by creating a new, aligned path forward and learn how to serve love powerfully

How this Program Works:

90-Days of Private Coaching: A short-term partnership for rapid transformation.

Overview:
An intensive 90-day private coaching container designed to create immediate momentum, ruthless clarity, and confidence - fast.
This is for the man who’s ready to stop wasting valuable time and wants to turn his relationship around quickly.

What’s Included:

  • 6 Private 1:1 Sessions (bi-weekly 75-minute coaching calls)

  • Unlimited WhatsApp Access (Monday-Friday)

  • Custom Action Map for the 90 Days (clear objectives, milestones, and targets)

  • Full Access to All Programs/Events during the container

Outcomes:

  • A Relationship that Feels Easy, Instead of Draining

  • Clarity on What You Want & How to Get It

  • Tools to Navigate Any Conflict Together

  • A Grounded Nervous System, Deep Presence, and Confidence

Investment: $4000.

MORE TESTIMONIALS…

James

“Ian Coll has helped me unlock my potential. When I first engaged with Ian I was struggling with imposter syndrome and often paralyzed with indecision. He helped me take control of my restless mind and focus it on my goals. Through the course of his coaching sessions I made several key breakthroughs, allowing me to take ownership of the next big step! Thank you Ian!”

Dylan

“My coaching with Ian was a first experience for me but Ian made it absolutely stress free. I had been following him for a while beforehand and I had confidence he would be able to provide me supportive advice and coaching on my issues I wanted to discuss. I can confidently say he delivered. There was structure, professionalism and progression. He listened and always had a supportive demeanor to what I was sharing with him.”

Afeef

“So when I reached out to Ian, I was experiencing some relationship challenges, and was having difficulty with making a decision and figuring out what to do, and I needed someone to talk to so I could come to a conclusion for myself. Ian held the support of space. He was very grounded, and he listened really well. He was very open, and he had several reminders and really great questions throughout our coaching. Offered me some unique insight into things that I didn’t really consider before, or if I did consider them, I put them way out to the side that he reframed a couple of things for me.”

Dan

“Since joining Ian’s mens group, it has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I didn’t realize how much I needed a space where I could be vulnerable, share my thoughts, and connect with other men who are walking similar paths. The group has given me a sense of belonging and accountability that was missing in my life. Each session, I walk away feeling lighter, more focused, and equipped to tackle challenges with a fresh perspective. It’s amazing how empowering it is to know you’re not alone in what you’re going through. The conversations are real, deep, and uplifting, without judgement. Since joining, I’ve grown as a person, a partner, and a friend. I feel more confident, balanced, and purposeful. It’s incredible to see how much we all lift each other up. I highly recommend a group like this to any man looking to better himself and strengthen his relationships.”